This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage: A Reese's Book Club Pick
by Ann Patchett
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A Reese Witherspoon Book Club Pick
"I had been so engaged by Ann Patchett's multifaceted story, so lured in by her confiding voice, that I forgot I was on the job. [...] As the best personal essays often do, Patchett's is a two-way mirror, reflecting both the author and her readers." -- New York Times Book Review
Blending literature and memoir, New York Times bestselling author Ann Patchett, author of State of Wonder, Run, and Bel Canto, examines her deepest commitments--to writing, family, friends, dogs, books, and her husband--creating a resonant portrait of a life in This is the Story of a Happy Marriage.
Stretching from her childhood to the present day, from a disastrous early marriage to a later happy one, This is the Story of a Happy Marriage covers a multitude of topics, including relationships with family and friends, and charts the hard work and joy of writing, and the unexpected thrill of opening a bookstore.
As she shares stories of the people, places, ideals, and art to which she has remained indelibly committed, Ann Patchett brings into focus the large experiences and small moments that have shaped her as a daughter, wife, and writer.
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Book Details
ISBN:
9780062236685
EAN:
9780062236685
Binding:
Paperback
Pages:
320
Authors:
Ann Patchett
Publisher:
Harper Perennial

"This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage" is the title author Ann Patchett felt was the right choice for this book and as a bookseller, a great title. Her book is about commitment and all the things she feels married to: her grandmother, dogs, bookselling, writing, art, family, friends, and of course, her husband Karl. The word marriage sums that all up.In 20+ previously published essays, Patchett shares: her preference for writing nonfiction, a dislike of Christmas, her writing practices, thoughts on divorce, her beloved dog - Rose, a love of opera, her nun - Sister Nina, an RV trip with Karl, and much more. Her writing voice is distinctive and personal as she shares observations and lessons along the way. Her words are always thoughtful, frank, and honest.As I read, I became fascinated with Patchett's life choices. Her focus is simple and revolves around her passion for writing, bookselling, family, and friends. The tidbits and memories, pieces and parts, are all shared so eloquently in her quiet, soothing prose I have come to love.I completely fell in love with Ann Patchett's "These Precious Days". In reading "This is a Story of a Happy Marriage", I felt I gained another layer of understanding of the author's nonfiction writing style. Reading this book was pure joy and I cherished every minute I spent with it.5⭐
So many different topics. The personality of Ann Patchett shines through them all. She is a unique person with strong convictions who leads her life on her terms. Read this and be inspired and stirred up and comforted.
I indulged in this collection of Ann Patchett's writing over a snowy weekend in the dead of winter and, I swear, every essay went down like a warm cup of cocoa. Maybe part of the pleasure I derived stems from the fact that the author's background and mine share more in common than I'd ever realized. Reading this book did feel a little like catching up with a dear but long-lost friend, yes. But I also happen to love beautifully crafted and insightful writing with great heart. And this work fully delivered. Patchett is a true artist and, collectively, these essays present a literary mosaic of her life that reads even better than memoir.The cover of this work may mislead you, as The Story of a Happy Marriage is the title of both the book and an included Audible Original piece that Patchett wrote in 2011. Only a few of its 22 essays focus on her relationship with her husband, Karl. The rest center on other significant relationships, aspects, and experiences in her life that she chose to honor in various newspaper and magazine articles and college addresses from 1996 through 2012. And I do mean honor, because what blew me away most about this work is Patchett's remarkable gift for conveying precisely what she's found most precious in her relationships and life experiences. In exquisite prose, she shines a clear bright light on the hidden beauty that most of us blithely overlook in our own lives.There is something for everyone in this book, guaranteed. For the would-be writer, Patchett offers valuable insights and advice on the writing life in "The Getaway Car" and describes her own path to becoming a bestselling author. Anyone in law enforcement will especially appreciate "The Wall" in which she pays tribute to not only her father and his long career in the LAPD, but to police officers everywhere, as she recounts her own experience with the police academy. For educators, she nails the importance of wide reading in describing, both in essay and convocation address, the resistance she received when her book Truth and Beauty became assigned summer reading at Clemson. In writing of the deep bond she shared with Lucy Grealy, a former college and graduate school friend and writer who died at age 39, Patchett helps us grasp what real love truly is and how powerful its loss. And when she recounts the decline and death of her beloved grandmother, I wept. I won't even touch on her essays on marriage or dogs because they deserve so much more than a one-line, albeit effusive, acclamation. Actually, all of these essays do. Trust me. In this book, something will strike, if not your deepest chord, one you never knew you had.Patchett's work proves brilliant in putting all manner of things in proper perspective, although you may not catch on right away. Case in point? Read "Paris Match." In it, Patchett describes a relationship-breaking argument she had with her first husband and, later, with Karl over the answer to a word game at dinner. She shares the word game with us but, just as her first husband did with her and, later, she did with Karl, Patchett doesn't provide us with the answer. Let me tell you, I searched high and low online for that blasted answer, and all I found were readers, like me, peeved that they couldn't find it, too. Then it hit me. Could there have been any better way to get us all to understand just what a relationship-breaker withholding an answer to a silly word game could be? I don't think so.Kudos to Ann Patchett for her ingenious twist on "show, don't tell" and for not holding back on any other word in this beautiful body of work. I'm so glad I purchased, along with this one, her second collection of essays, These Precious Days. I'm all set. So, I say, let it snow, let it snow.
I loved this book. Ann Patchett has been one of my favorite authors for a long time. I don't know how she found time to write books and do so many good things for others. She made me laugh many times and made me cry too (mostly about the dog Rose). We had similar lives when young and in school - I was taught by Dominican nuns for 8 years. I've missed a couple of her books and can't wait to read them too. I would recommend this book to everyone.
I loved everything about this book which didn’t seem like a book but a nice set of stories about everything a woman deals with or dealt with or wonders about dealing with. Ann writes with exquisite honesty and thoroughness about her dog dying, the daily care she provided for her grandmother with an attention to detail that could act as a primer for the caretakers guild (if such existed). On then to her mother’s nonstandard life and legendary beauty, her terrible first marriage and her long, long love affair with her husband before daring to get married again. And more. Much, much more. And she is never boring as she employs her artistry of bringing forth the ordinary as if giving birth for the first time to these universal events that surely must have their human origins hundreds of thousands of years ago. I look forward to reading Bel Canto next. I hope Ann writes forever.
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